9/10/2014

21 days - Getting organized

Hi guys! So this past couple of days mi mind has been everywhere and I take every opportunity I get to sleep because the bags under my eyes as much as I want are not Chanel. Anyways because of that, I decided to make my life simpler by having a planner, at first it seemed like something useless to me, I couldn't picture myself writing everything down or even having to but today I actually read an article about getting your life together and organized and I was really motivated to do so, so I got a planer  and started using it today, it was weird at first but they also said that it takes 21 days to form a habit and after those 21 days it will be so much easier and well... It will be a habit tome to write everything down, getting organized is really important specially at my age, where I feel like everything is extremely complicated and hard to do but it is actually not that hard it is just a matter of knowing how to have time, to put really important things before the others and actually doings them. Having priorities! It is all about that. Start small, do your homework before going on Facebook or Tumblr (for hours) 
Or set a goal like, finish that work out in under 20 minutes or something like that, challenge yourself so it will be fun to do so. And really remember to set short term goals as long term goals but be realistic with them.
Do it, like I'm gonna and I hope it works because my life is looking upside down now! So much stress and I'm no good with stress. 21 days to form a habit! Mark your calendar and form a new habit. Organize your life.
Good luck!
Xo

9/02/2014

Step 3: Forgiving/ Dealing with a broken heart ( Final )

You know, like by the third step you are supposed to feel brand new, happy and you should have realized that it is you who can make your own happiness, well that is how you are supposed to feel by now, but we all have different times and different ways to heal so if you aren't still, is perfectly okay, just keep repeating step 1 and 2 and you should be on your way to number 3 obviously... Anyways, if you are in step 3 like I said before, congratulations on your new discoveries I know I'm proud of myself.
Why forgiving? Well it is because there is nothing left but to forgive the person which make you feel so bad, I know, crazy right? But wen if you are saying right know like "hell no, I will never!" 
Trust me, it is the best thing you'll ver do because it will not only prove who the bigger person in whatever it was of the relationship is, which will be you, but it will also bring you some inner peace... Like trust me I just did step 3 today and it felt so good to know that I was happy with my life and the person who caused all my pain is now in the past, and I don't hate that person, I know can move on onto bigger things and really having no hard feelings or anything like that but actually having time for myself.
I'm happy I didn't keep anything I was feeling for myself but actually said it! I am really so calmed and I'm ready for whatever life throws me now!! 
Make peace with your inner self, be the bigger person, feel good about yourself, forgive! 
Good luck!
Xx