You know, like by the third step you are supposed to feel brand new, happy and you should have realized that it is you who can make your own happiness, well that is how you are supposed to feel by now, but we all have different times and different ways to heal so if you aren't still, is perfectly okay, just keep repeating step 1 and 2 and you should be on your way to number 3 obviously... Anyways, if you are in step 3 like I said before, congratulations on your new discoveries I know I'm proud of myself.
Why forgiving? Well it is because there is nothing left but to forgive the person which make you feel so bad, I know, crazy right? But wen if you are saying right know like "hell no, I will never!"
Trust me, it is the best thing you'll ver do because it will not only prove who the bigger person in whatever it was of the relationship is, which will be you, but it will also bring you some inner peace... Like trust me I just did step 3 today and it felt so good to know that I was happy with my life and the person who caused all my pain is now in the past, and I don't hate that person, I know can move on onto bigger things and really having no hard feelings or anything like that but actually having time for myself.
I'm happy I didn't keep anything I was feeling for myself but actually said it! I am really so calmed and I'm ready for whatever life throws me now!!
Make peace with your inner self, be the bigger person, feel good about yourself, forgive!
Good luck!
Xx
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