Mothers advice... You will always deserve the best.

After a very good chat with my mom I understood that as much as it hurts to get a fresh start it is good for the body the mind and the soul. It is going to burn like hell in your chest (trust me, I know) but occasionally it will stop hurting. And when you try your hardest and others do not recognize it, it is sometimes okay but there is a limit and if you are not feeling appreciated, but all the opposite you have to leave that environment as soon as you can. Why? Because that same people will bring you down whenever they can, and nobody deserves that not even them. You will feel depressed for some days maybe even weeks because getting used to the idea that everything is changing it is very hard and there is no one rushing you so don't be ashamed or afraid and take as long as you need to feel okay again. At some point you will feel better and when you look back it will all be a memory, maybe a good one or maybe a bad one, that is up to you to decide, but you have to have this clear in your mind; 

 You deserve the best, and even when it all seems bad God has a plan for us and he can take us on rough paths, but as rough as it all can get it is always the right one. Trust him and always remind yourself that your opinion and yourself are the most important things and no one can make that any other way. Love yourself always. 

So if you are depressed or going through a bad time, just remember it all gets better at some point and timing is different for everyone, if you are going through a bad breakup (cough,cough) 

Remember, your mother spend 9 months making your heart, not for someone to break it in a minute. 

We all deserve better. Keep your head up. 

P.S: when you are sad, drink a cup of tea, read a book, have a makeover, listen to music, dance in your room, get out there with friends, have sleepovers or even party's do anything that makes you feel good as new. It is not the end it is the start of something new